People
come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When
you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When
someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come
to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance
and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They
are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any
wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person
will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they
act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize
is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work
is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now
time to move on.
When
people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn
has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you
have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount
of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
When
people come into you life for a LIFETIME, it is amazing. LIFETIME
relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your
job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship
is clairvoyant.
This
e-mail came to me about the same time Monte Guynes came into
my life.
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